What is your responsibility?
Should you live your life feeling responsible for others happiness and well being? Do you need to inform the other parent of your child that you have moved on even more by having a child with someone else? Apparently being in your mid-30s means you need to have the constant reassurance that you are the center of some insignificant others world like a teenager. It doesn't matter that you have 3 kids to think about or that you are in a new relationship. It doesn't matter that you have not been with this person for 3+ years. All that matters is that the person make sure to inform you of all of their life decisions that don't involve you and let you vent about how that person screwed up your life by doing this. If someone has mental instability issues and always seem to be in constant crisis mode every time you speak to them, would you share something that may upset them? I don't know if I would. I suppose it would depend on how much the information should directly i...